Green dot never disappears

[link2xt]

Green dot never disappears

[Simon-Laux]

#3268 would fix that, but if we want a smaller solution we could check the contact changed listeners in the chatlist and try to fix them

[Simon-Laux]

seems like it does also not disappear in the navbar automatically.

Edit: seems to not be so easy, when I test it now disappearing works most of the time, with or without the new chatlist events (that are not used by the navbar in either case, only by the chatlist)

What I found out is that the ContactsChanged event is always missing when recently seen turns on.

Update 2:

ContactsChanged event is sometimes sent delayed by the recently sent loop.